One mom’s type of disciplining her teen daughter just isn’t going over effectively on social media–and he or she may care much less. But the backlash to her technique was so intense that the mom later employed the teenager in an “I’m not a victim” video and printed a number of explainer clips. All of which solely fueled accusations of abuse and jealousy.
It all began with a TikTook video of the woman’s punishment–an enormous chop. The preliminary footage exhibits the mom on-camera explaining that her child “thinks it’s more important to be pretty than educated, more important to be a follow body than a leader.”
Afterward, the mom propped up the digicam whereas explaining that she’s “not a parent that likes to use physical discipline.”
The teen was rocking massive field braids with red-ish roots on the time. She tells her daughter, “come here, you’re going to learn today,” and proceeds to yank the woman by a entrance braid. The mom cuts the braid off, leaving small scraps of the teenager’s pure hair. When the teenager objected with a “mom,” the woman went off.
“Don’t mom me, no. You had your warning, you had your chance. I told you to listen, I told you stop disobeying my rules. I told you being cute ain’t sh*t if you have no education. I told you stop disobeying me, I told to listen and do as you’re supposed to, I told you to do good in school, I told you to do your daily routine,” the mom stated. “And you’re yet to do any of it, and you thought you were disobeying me today, and I was not coming to cut this hair off. You’re sadly mistaken because you thought being pretty was so much better than being educated or listening to your mom right.”
As she ranted, the grown-up snipped off the teenager’s hair one braid at a time. Meanwhile, the teenager stood there, sneaking shocked seems to be on the recording digicam. Finally, when the mom completed the botched massive chop, she shoved the teenager’s head towards the digicam. She stated, “yes, this is what happens when you don’t listen to your mom.”
At some level we have to discuss concerning the risks of jealous narcissistic moms: pic.twitter.com/94JTPt9Wyg
Mother Has Daughter Explain Why She’s ‘Not A Victim’ Then Presents Her With A Wig
Almost instantly, individuals on-line began weighing in on the mom’s determination. While some agreed together with her technique, others slammed it. Neither swayed the lady into reconsidering her self-discipline technique. Instead, she filmed one other video together with her daughter on the identical day as the massive chop.
In the follow-up, the mom stands partially off-camera whereas the daughter and her butchered chop are in full view. She begins by asking her daughter questions, together with whether or not she feels traumatized or abused. With a straight face and calm tone, the teenager responded “no” to every query. Then, the mom requested if the massive chop was a “better form of discipline” than bodily self-discipline, and the teenager responded, “yes.”
Afterward, the mom reminded the teenager that she loves her and enforced the punishment to “make [the teen] a better person.” Then, she runs down a how-many-times listing, attempting to level out that she’s allegedly been having ongoing points with the teenager.
“I didn’t embarrass you, you embarrassed yourself, right,” the lady requested.
And the movies didn’t cease there–she shared extra footage questioning the daughter, explaining their bond, and in the end, presenting her daughter with a prolonged wig. The daughter seems glad as she tries on the wig whereas agreeing together with her mom’s line of questioning.
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Woman Justifies Why She Chopped Her Daughter’s Hair Off
The movies began to achieve traction final week. About two days in the past, the mom gave one other sequence of updates. This time, she slammed critics for his or her commentary, significantly ladies within the intercourse work trade.
“If you’re a prostitute, if you’re a stripper, if you’re an OnlyFans girl or a TikToking, Instagram ‘doing it for show,’ you could never give me advice on parenting because your parents already screwed up a long time ago,” the mom stated.
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In one other video, she declared that she may “care less” concerning the feedback, likes, and views. She claimed the massive chop menace was lingering for a 12 months however that her daughter didn’t imagine her, and he or she didn’t imagine herself. So lastly, she stated, she stood on her phrase. She additionally denied accusations that she feels jealous of her teen daughter.
“After exhausting so many different types of discipline, writing lines, grounding, and taking away, doing all of that, it doesn’t matter,” the mom stated. “When I ask her not to go on the apps, she makes a new one and continues her badness, and does what she wants to do. I’m not going to sit here and explain to you guys what really happened cause I’m not here to embarrass my daughter. I’m here to teach my daughter.”
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Social Media Reacts To Mother Cutting Off Her Daughter’s Hair
Meanwhile, the innanet doesn’t appear to suppose the mom is instructing her daughter a lot–if something. Keep scrolling to see the chatter surrounding the mom’s actions:
The youngster cares about her seems to be —> her mom unceremoniously cuts off her hair (implying that she’s eradicating a part of her magnificence) as punishment —> the kid now sees that not being lovely is a punishment, ergo unhealthy.
— Ꮶ🪞Ꭹ (@IfYouSeekKay) December 11, 2022
The guardian who minimize off their youngster’s hair for prioritizing seems to be over schooling was not simply emotional abusive, that’s bodily abuse. Is her hair not a part of her?
Also…. She taught her to not prioritize seems to be over schooling by…prioritizing altering her seems to be?
— Supernova Momma (@SupernovaMomma) December 11, 2022
When moms minimize their daughters hair off as a type of “punishment”, it’s by no means about instructing a lesson. It’s abuse.. Women perceive the significance of hair for different ladies & particularly little ladies. It’s about humbling their daughters & making their daughters really feel lower than.
— Bella Goth 💓 (@LilSexyCommie) December 12, 2022
Say bruh, I’m not arguing with y’all about abuse. How about I yank your ass up and minimize off your hair to verify your speculation. Let’s conduct a science experiment and see should you really feel abuse after I’m achieved
— Supernova Momma (@SupernovaMomma) December 11, 2022
Your mother being your bully is the nastiest shit anybody can ever expertise, worse for a lady.
The anger she has whereas slicing these locks is from jealousy and nothing else, the woman is Still prettier than her even with the hair minimize off anyway. https://t.co/3TmqqT9Jma
— Uncle Ras Dartte’ (@Dartte_45) December 12, 2022
A mother on tiktok CUT HER DAUGHTERS HAIR OFF, and is speaking about it’s as a result of she’s placing magnificence at the beginning else… ALL WHILST USING A FILTER!???
You new technology mothers are one thing else man. Emotional youngster abuse is simply as unhealthy as bodily. She’s must go to JAIL!
— Soph ✨🇯🇲 (@Signedbysophiee) December 11, 2022
This mother on tiktok minimize her daughters hair, posts the video and after receiving hate she wanna flip the feedback off and preserve gaslighting her daughter by making movies saying issues like “they acting like you traumatized, they act like you are the victim” bitch trigger she is!
— Destiny (@SUNNYYY_D) December 10, 2022
Was coming right here to say this too…
My mother had the same expertise rising up; had her hair minimize off as punishment & this is without doubt one of the evilest of shit a mom may do to hurt their daughter. I wished to seize mama’s necklace & choke her out for this video https://t.co/yrGrdwEd1E pic.twitter.com/ozk3crsFuq
— ✨🌞 Jennicka 🌑✨ (@jennicka_bacon) December 12, 2022